Penis! everywhere! I yearn for the Chris Morris sketch with giant prosthetics, lots of pointing, and the presenter shouting “you sicken me” at the poor hapless politician.
In this case, it was Keir Starmer who was confronted by LBC’s Nick Ferrari, who posed the question: “A woman can have a penis?” Starmer looked flummoxed and replied “I’m not… I don’t think we can conduct this debate with… I don’t think that discussing this issue in this way helps anyone in the long run.”
The clip, which went viral, was labeled “Starmer refuses to say if a woman can have a penis”. There then followed an excruciating week for any Labor frontbencher who went on the airwaves.
Not for them questions on Ukraine, rising Covid cases or the cost-of-living crisis. Nope. It was all about the penis. It’s the cervix I feel sorry for. There she was, finally getting some long overdue attention, then the penis comes along and hogs the limelight. Typical.
It’s deeply frustrating for the majority of us who aren’t completely obsessed with toxic culture wars, but Labor bigwigs are furious. A senior adviser expressed their disbelief that this was running hot as an issue.
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I get their annoyance, especially as I used to be a political adviser, but they can’t be surprised. They also cannot think being cross with the media will make it shrivel up and go away.
The way Labor is dealing with the trans debate reminds me of how Labor dealt with immigration as an issue (spoiler, not well). Immigration began rising up the agenda, fueled by extremists like Nigel Farage and an often-hysterical media.
A powerful narrative was crafted that immigrants were devious, crafty, cheating, dangerous and were taking over this country. I often wondered if I should sport myself. Or at least one parent.
In this rabid anti-immigration climate, Labor just didn’t know what to say and was too scared to get involved in the debate.
Labor must not make the same mistake in the debate on trans rights, gender identity and biological sex as it did on immigration. The public and the press can smell fear. And they will push this question.
I hate the question by the way, and I think just like with immigration, there is a common-sense, compassionate, and evidence-based solution. But you have to have the guts (or should I say balls?) to make it.
And getting to that position requires some deep thinking and the ability to have calm and respectful discussions. That’s not happening in the Labor party. Many older members, especially women, are frightened to talk about their concerns or ask questions as many have been labeled transphobic.
Some have been reported to the party’s disciplinary team. Rosie Duffield has become the poster girl for the strains within the Labor party and could cause serious damage if she defects or is deselected.
Other members feel they aren’t been listened to properly either and that the Labor party has always fought for the rights of marginalized people.
Labor can’t run away from this debate. Without a position, this will grow as a political attack line along with the other culture war issues, especially now the Tories have once again beaten Labor to an equality first with Jamie Wallis coming out as transgender in a powerful and moving statement.
Just like immigration, everyone who raised it as an issue wasn’t a racist, and every woman who raises the importance of single sex spaces isn’t a transphobe.
But we must understand and accept that society evolves and that means giving marginalized groups more rights. Labor needs to get its act together and fast.
Nature abhors a vacuum and dark voices and views are already dominating this space, taking the debate to extremes on both sides. The longer Labor leaves it, the more difficult it will be. And the media – including myself – does need to reflect. Immigrants and those on benefits were demonized. Do we really want to do this all over again with trans people?
And every presenter who gleefully reduces this to the penis needs to look in the mirror as they may find they have one growing out of their own forehead.
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