Gweneth Lee, who considers herself the ‘UK’s most well-known mistress’ has revealed all about the women in her life – the wives of her many married lovers, who occasionally get in touch
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It’s a tale as old as time when it comes to infidelity – with one straying partner while the other is devastated.
But it seems that may not be true – with Gweneth Lee, one of the UK’s most well-known mistresses, has told about her dealings with the wives of married lovers.
And it’s not just dealing with a queue of fuming women – some of them are apparently interested themselves.
Gweneth, who is in her 40s, splits her time between London and California, living a life of luxury funded by her very rich and powerful partners, all of whom have a significant other at home.
While she says there are plenty of perks to dating millionaires, one of the downsides is dealing with their upset partners.
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Others try to get involved by offering threesomes while some aren’t bothered at all.
As Gweneth puts it, the latter are happy so long as they “keep getting money, gifts and can keep the Range Rover”.
“I’ve had several incidents where I’ve met men’s wives,” the mistress told said.
“Some were funny but others… not so much.
“One wife, who was clearly drunk, texted me to say she was with her husband and had found my name, and ‘did I want to join them for a drink?’
“I told her to give me a call and she was really upset. Weirdly, she didn’t even ask if I’d had sex with him – and with this particular man, I hadn’t! We had just been on a few dates.
“I find some women just want someone to blame but they can’t blame their husband because he’s the father of their children or they have to continue to co-exist, or they don’t want to lose the benefits of dating a rich man .
Gweneth has also met some of her lovers’ partners, including one particularly memorable visit with a wife who, to this day, doesn’t know she met her husband’s side piece.
She said: “I was having an affair with a man who has medical clinics in London.
“His wife was an artist and I collect art, so one day he told me to check out her pieces and contact her.
“Soon after, I went to her atelier so she could show me around and we got on very well.
“She never found out that I was his mistress.”
Some wives know all about Gweneth and even want to have sex with her themselves.
Gweneth said: “The offer of the threesome came from the wife of one of my regular married lovers.
“I had been seeing this guy in London for around two years. He was a wealthy financier stuck in a miserable marriage who was seeing other women apart from me.
“Eventually he walked out on the marriage and quickly remarried another mistress he was seeing at the same time as me.
“It is this second mistress, now wife, who wants to have a threesome with me and her hubby.
“All three of us love sex and I cannot wait to join them for a night of fun. If you are all approaching a threesome with the same attitude, where is the harm? It is when secrecy and lies creep in that the problems start. “
The experienced mistress, who is polyamorous and used to be married herself until her husband tragically died, also says how women react to cheating spouses sometimes depends on their culture.
Gweneth, who meets her lovers through the affairs website IllicitEncounters.com, said: “If one of my men has a Latin or Italian wife, they always want to keep our relationship secret and they’re terrified of her finding out.
“There’s a strong chance all that passion could end up badly if he’s caught and revenge is definitely a possibility – she could poison him, like put laxatives in his coffee.
“If they’re Spanish or Portuguese, they’ll make him feel guilty.
“British wives however, tend to have a ‘don’t ask, don’t tell’ rule and many British men often tell me it would break their wife’s heart to find out but that if they did, the marriage would still recover.
“They would simply sweep it under the rug, keep calm and carry on. The stiff upper lip is really a thing.
“Scandinavians tend to be more open-minded.”
As for herself, Gweneth is Dutch and British, but her late dad is French – and never had much of an issue with her preference for love rats.
She said: “I’ve always been into married men. I never discuss it with my mum’s side of the family but my dad, being French, was like ‘yeah it’s okay’.
“My paternal grandfather was the same way. When I was a teenager, he used to call me a free spirit and once told me ‘there are women who are lovers and there are women who are wives’.
“He wasn’t wrong.”
Gweneth, who has been called a “husband stealer” many times, doesn’t feel guilty about being a mistress – because she’s not the one cheating.
She added: “Women I’ve done business with will sometimes find out what I get up to in my spare time, and many of them get upset.
“Some will call me to ask if their husband has cheated on them with me, even though I’ve never met their partners!
“If a man cheats with me, it actually has nothing to do with me. These men are making a conscious choice to be unfaithful.
“But I always ask their wives how they feel, because more often than not, their anger isn’t about the fact I sleep with their men – it’s a more deep-rooted issue.”
George Holan is chief editor at Plainsmen Post and has articles published in many notable publications in the last decade.